The Mindful Way Through Depression – Freeing Yourself From Chronic Unhappiness – Book Review
Title: The Mindful Way Through Depression – Freeing Yourself From Chronic Unhappiness
Authors: Mark Williams, John Teasdale, Zindel Segal & Jon Kabat-Zinn
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Genre: Self Help
Winner of the Association for Behavioural and
Cognitive Therapies (ABCT) Self-Help Seal of Merit!
Over 160,000 in print!
When you have depression or are suffering from any kind of mental health issue like anxiety, a self-help book is often to be taken with a pinch of salt. I have been a big self-help book reader for over 14 years and have developed an inner sceptic about books being of any use to me, especially on the subject of depression and anxiety. And since beginning to practice mindfulness I have been keen to understand more and to see if any book actually does what it says on the cover, and makes those changes that many self-help books proclaim to do.
The Mindful Way Through Depression does what it says on the cover.
I say this in all seriousness. Never has a book gotten to the core of what it feels like to be depressed or suffer from anxiety for me, more than this one. Instead of useless exercises used as a filler in a self-help book, which most people bypass, as they are of very little use in day-to-day life, this book offers instructions and guidance that can have long lasting and profound effects on one’s state of mind and personal freedom.
“If we have been depressed before, a low mood can become easier and easier to trigger over time, because each time it returns, the thoughts, feelings , body sensations, and behaviours that accompany it form stronger and stronger connections to each other. Eventually, any one element can trigger depression by itself.” (The Mindful Way Through Depression)
So What Is So Good About This Book?
It’s real. It doesn’t sugar-coat your experience. There are no positive thinking antidotes; no gratitude lists to write; no inauthentic exercises. The writers of this book have managed to offer, step-by-step, a way through depression; a way to be with the feelings that come, and a way to not only manage depression and anxiety, but to finally, at long last, make friends with what is a debilitating condition. I have been reading this book for a little over 2 weeks now, following what the authors say to do, using the CD that accompanies it, and I am really noticing a difference in my state of mind. I am feeling a greater sense of inner peace and freedom and do not feel controlled by my feelings or thoughts any more.
Clinically Proven Methods
The methods used include feeling the feelings, relating to the body in a whole new way, embracing ‘what is’ instead of distracting or pushing through, and using the senses. It seems simple, but takes practice, and this mindfulness practice has worked for many many people to experience a greater relief from symptoms like depression and anxiety.
It includes meditations but is not for any specific religion. It’s for everyone and is very simple to do.
The methods shown give examples of real people with genuine experiences of depression doing the practice, and real tools for using these in every day life. The key with this book is it encourages you to embrace what you learn in your normal routine. It’s not about sitting on a meditation cushion and that is that; it’s about utilising proven methods whilst in the midst of a challenging mood swing or a despairing moment. It brings a sense of no longer feeling powerless when confronted by our emotions and thoughts.
This Is Not About Thinking Your Way Out Of A Bad Mood
Other books may instruct you to think your way out of a bad mood. People (who’ve never been there) may say “Snap out of it”, but this book does the opposite. You feel your way through your experience. I love how this book changed my view of my own thoughts and feelings. The CD, spoken by best-selling author Jon Kabat-Zinn is as graceful as the book to listen to and he speaks in a way that you can’t get this practice wrong; you can’t get any of it wrong, it’s so beautifully explained and expressed.
“Our reactions to unhappiness can transform what might otherwise be a brief, passing sadness into persistent dissatisfaction and unhappiness.” (The Mindful Way Through Depression).
What Does ‘The Mindful Way Through Depression’ Cover?
The chapters are separated in sequence so that as you move through the book it feels a gentle graceful shift into a new way of experiencing feelings and thoughts.
The book includes:
Introduction: Tired of Feeling So Bad for So Long
I. Mind, Body, and Emotion
1. “Oh, No, Here I Go Again”: Why Unhappiness Won’t Let Go
2. The Healing Power of Awareness: Making a Shift to Freedom
II. Moment by Moment
3. Cultivating Mindfulness: A First Taste
4. The Breath: Gateway to Awareness
5. A Different Kind of Knowing: Sidestepping the Ruminative Mind
III. Transforming Unhappiness
6. Reconnecting with Our Feelings—Those We Like, Those We Don’t Like, and Those We Don’t Know We Have
7. Befriending our Feelings
8. Seeing Thoughts as Creations of the Mind
9. Mindfulness in Everyday Life: Taking a Breathing Space
IV. Reclaiming Your Life
10. From Being Unhappy to Being Fully Alive
11. The Mindfulness Program and Your Life: Bringing It All Together
Accessible to all. Very easy to read. It flows perfectly through each chapter. No jargon. Written by authors who really know what they are talking about. Not confusing. Useful and worthwhile. A book that really does what it says on the cover. The CD complements the book brilliantly and is perfect for anyone struggling with depression and needing help on what to do to view the experience differently.
Absolutely no critique. I am sorry, but I cannot find anything wrong with this book.
*Post Disclaimer: I received ‘The Mindful Way Through Depression’ from Guilford Press in the UK for review. All opinions are my own.
Kelly Martin is the author of ‘When Everyone Shines But You’ , a passionate writer and blogger questioning life’s illusions. After what seemed like a decade of intense anxiety, feelings of failure and grief from the loss of her father she chose to take a mindfulness path and has not looked back since. Kelly encourages people to find the treasures that lie within the pain and suffering and to learn to see themselves as ‘enough’ exactly as they are, right now through her writing and You Tube channel .