In a bookshop last week I read a poem on ‘giving’ by Kahlil Gibran and it struck me how conditional I still am in my giving.
Kahlil Gibran – On Giving
You give but little when you give of your possessions.
It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.
For what are your possessions but things you keep and guard for fear you may need them tomorrow?
And tomorrow, what shall tomorrow bring to the overprudent dog burying bones in the trackless sand as he follows the pilgrims to the holy city?
And what is fear of need but need itself?
Is not dread of thirst when your well is full, the thirst that is unquenchable?
There are those who give little of the much which they have–and they give it for recognition and their hidden desire makes their gifts unwholesome.
With the best intentions we share, give, express to others, but how many of us give like life does, give like God or love does?
Life, earth, trees filled with fruit, raindrops gifting us water, the love of a friendly dog – life gives to all. The Sun shines on us all, the good, the bad, the indifferent – just giving without judgement.
As humans, many of us give to those we like, give to those we empathise with or feel obligated to give to, but how often do we give to those we may have some pre-judgment of, those we feel don’t deserve to be given to?
Those expressing anger or hatred towards us or others.
Those encouraging war.
Those killing whales or dolphins.
Those polluting the planet.
The list goes on…
Is it possible to give like God?
I admit, it is not easy sometimes. Far easier to point fingers at world leaders or governments; far easier to make wrong those we feel are doing terrible things on this planet. But by doing this are we not perpetuating the energy of fear on this planet? Change happens inside of us. We need to open our hearts to the entire world – not just those pleasing aspects of life.
Since beginning a practice of Ho’oponopono (see HERE for more info.), I am day-by-day discovering how the world I see and experience through my eyes is my responsibility. It would not be in my reality if I were not there too.
When my thoughts turn to anger and hate of another, or a group in society, I am simply adding to the collective fear energy. With Ho’oponopono, it helps me see the other side of an experience of manifestation.
Hating the government is not going to make the government be more reasonable or loving. Why should it when I am being unreasonable or unloving, why should it when I am being unreasonable, unloving and conditional in my giving – think about it.
Gift a child with love and it will grow in love.
Gift a child with anger or fear and it will grow in fear.
Why would the entire world be any different?