The More You Want The Less Changes


This felt a bittersweet message to receive in a dream last night but when I understood what it meant it made a lot of sense to me.

Before bed last night I asked for a Beltane dream. 

The underlying energy of Beltane is one of reverance for all of life.  A time to reach out for what it is you want and  a time when everything is possible.  So I was very shocked and surprised to receive the message :

‘The more you want the less changes’.

Perhaps the spirit of Beltane was truly flowing through me last night and this is a message I will absorb today on my trip out into nature.

My first feeling on this message was, the more we crave, the more we yearn for, the less changes.

Craving and yearning come from a place of lack.

And that natural change unfolds from a place of wholeness, a place where we not only accept where and who we are in our lives but we begin to find a deep respect, appreciation and love for what is.


Kelly Martin
Kelly Martin

Kelly Martin, author of ‘When Everyone Shines But You’ is a dedicated writer and blogger who fearlessly explores life’s deepest questions. Faced with a decade of profound anxiety and grief following the loss of her father and her best friend Michael, Kelly embarked on a transformative journey guided by mindfulness, and she hasn’t looked back since. Through her insightful writing, engaging podcasts, and inspiring You Tube channel Kelly empowers others to unearth the hidden treasures within their pain, embracing the profound truth that they are ‘enough’ exactly as they are.

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  1. May 29, 2011 / 2:19 pm

    hmmm .. that's interesting. And from personal experience it's probably true!

  2. May 29, 2011 / 5:06 pm

    Hi Andy, that very statement in my dream shocked me to the core when I first got it lol! But it was ultimately true. The more I focused on wanting to travel, to have more money, more friendships, more clothes, more more more… lol! the more I felt stuck haha!

    And the more I began to like my current life the more life became easier and fresher and flowing.

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